The difference is quite simple and rather stereotypical. At my birthday tea party, a few of my white friends drove from Naples to visit me. The party was supposed to start at 12:30. At 12:35 my friends were racing towards my front exclaiming, “We’re so sorry! We stopped and Howley’s and didn’t leave enough time to get here!”
To which I replied, “Um…ok. It’s only 12:35”
At 1:00 my family strolls through the door like, “Hey! How’s it going?”
Way to live up to the stereotype, family.